LIFE COACHING

MEETING YOU WHERE YOU ARE AT AND COACHING YOU TO YOUR FULLEST POTENTIAL

Do you know anyone in your circle that doesn't want the most out of life?  Sadly we all can identify folks in our lives that just simply seem to have given up, or given in to what their lives have become.

No drive, no ambition, no desire to reach for the next big thing.  

I trust that doesn't sound like you.  One of my favorite quotes is this, "the only difference between a rut and a grave is the depth of the hole".  Ouch, does that hit a little too close to home?

Working with a Life Coach is a commitment to take your life, your skills, your talents, all the things that make you, YOU - and refine, perhaps redefine, but definitely make better to make you a better you.  Using the gifts you already possess.

Specific targeted exercises and projects that moves the you of today over to the you that you want to be.  Using your goals, hopes, dreams and desires, a game plan is made specific to you that makes the best you possible.

And as your Life Coach, I walk alongside you, from the sidelines as you reach new heights and experience and achieve the new goals you've set for yourself.  Together we celebrate the victories, and in the down time strategize how to tackle the next big thing on your horizon.

You've already have the talent thats needed, as your Life Coach I simply help you learn to utilize it to take your life to the level you want it to be at.  And as you reach each new height, I celebrate in the shadows while those around you recognize the hard work you accomplished to reach the goals you've set for yourself.

If you've feel like you've seen some success but then reach a plateau you just can't seem to get off, or maybe even regressed in your life goals, working with a Life Coach is a great way to get the momentum back and get that upward inertia back behind you to achieve the things you want to achieve.  

Family & Friends

STRIKING THE PERFECT BALANCE

You can pick your friends, you can't pick your family.  We've all heard it said and for most of us its more true than we'd like.  But finding the time to devote to the ones we love as well as finding the time to do the things we like to do with our friends seems to be a never ending struggle.

Whether our spouse or significant other, our kids (or grandkids perhaps), aging parents or other loved ones.  There never seems to be enough time in a day to accomplish everything you'd like to get done.

Friends require a whole extra dimension of planning and time.  The things we do with family we probably don't do with friends and vice versa.  So whether a round of golf of dinner and a movie, allocating the time needed to maintain healthy vibrant relationships with friends is a challenge faced by many.

Ask yourself these questions...

Do you struggle to find the time your family needs and wants from you?

Does it often feel like there simply isn't enough hours in the day for the ones you love?

Do you find yourself missing out on critical life events with loved ones due to other obligations or responsibilities?

Career

IT'S WHAT PAYS THE BILLS

Your job.  It's what gives you purpose, perhaps fulfillment, maybe even joy.  Or does it?

Is your job, or career the thing you want to be doing in life?  You need the income it provides, and perhaps its what you've always wanted to do - but is it your life?  Is your job the thing you want to be known by.  Is your career the thing you want the people that matter most to you to know you by.

Career is a tough one for many, perhaps even you.  It's what you need to do, but is it really what you want to do.  If you had blank slate and could design your life the way you imagine you would have when you where younger, is your job (career) the thing you saw yourself doing?

You need a job - but it shouldn't own you.  Your job exists to give you the resources to provide for your family and to finance your calling.

Ask Yourself these questions...

Are you a slave to your job or are you the master of your job?

Does your job and the stress of your job consume time you should be spending on other things?

Has your job made you miss out on things in life you'd otherwise wish you had taken part in?

Calling

WHAT YOU DIDN'T LEARN IN SCHOOL

Calling for most of us is much different than our career.  Most of us didn't grow up wanting to be <insert your current career title here>.  No, whether it was an astronaut or a race car driver, perhaps a movie star or professional athlete - very few of us get through and end up what we thought we'd be when we were young.

That's not a bad thing.  Some of our ideas when we were young might not pay the bills or keep the mortgage company happy monthly.  

That's why we have careers.

But your career most likely is not your calling.  But what is, your calling?  Its a hard question to ask and an even harder question to answer.  In a lot of cases simply answering, "I don't know" is about as honest and transparent as you can get on this one.

They don't teach calling in school.  There isn't a Calling 101 and a Calling 201 for the advanced learners that you can audit to get the information while avoiding the final exam.

Ask yourself these questions...

Do you struggle to articulate what your calling is and/or question whether you have a calling at all?

Have you ever stopped to really define what your calling may be?

Have you made your calling a priority in your life?

Balance

IT'S WHAT WE ALL ARE AFTER

Strike the perfect balance.  You've remarked to friends, family or co-workers a hundred times that if you only had more time for <insert activity here>.  The ironic thing about a statement like that is that the activity inserted into the brackets typically changes depending on who you are making it to.

Time is our most valuable asset and yet how many times have you found that you simply waste or squander the time you have not recognizing its true irreplaceable value.  What would happen if you intentionally took the time to manage your time in such a way that none of your areas of your life suffered as a result of you.

Whether your family and friends, career or calling, each element in your life got the time it needed and the time you wanted to devote to it.

You might say if that was the case that perhaps you have found balance in life.  It's not a dream and it can be your reality.

Ask Yourself these questions...

Do you often say to yourself, "If only I had more time for ..."?

Do you find yourself losing out on opportunities and out of focus on what you think is important?

Does your calendar run your life or do you own your time and calendar to your own benefit?

Take the next step...

If you are ready to take the next step, complete the form below and we will schedule a time to meet.  During our 30-minute no charge consultation, we will discuss your goals and objectives to determine if I am a good fit for the things you want to accomplish giving you the opportunity to live your life to its fullest.

In preparation of our first time to meet, take time to complete the "summarize" field below.  This will allow me to be better prepared for our first time meeting.  We will meet in a location that is convenient to you, and our time together will be spent discussing the goals and objectives you want to accomplish.  In the rare case that our schedules do not allow us to meet in person, we can arrange a meeting via Zoom, Teams or FaceTime.  Whether in person or via the internet, at the conclusion of our time, I will present a proposal that will address the items discussed during our time together.

At that point, if you think I am the right fit for you we will move forward, if not we simply shake hands and go our separate ways.  There is no hard sell or pressure, my desire is that you see that I am the right Coach for you, meeting you where you are and taking you to where you want to go.